March 21, 2012

Update

So here is an update of all the latest drama in Apartment 1. Are you ready? It's another long one. So where did I leave off? Oh yeah Saturday. So Sunday was parents day in our singles ward so my parents and Alex's parents came down and we all went to church together. Kailey's mom and sister came down a little later so we ate dinner with them and then we all back to our apartment and had some DIVINE peanut butter bars that me and Alpaca (alex) made. When we were alone my mom told me that she was having a hard time being nice to Kailey because she knows the whole story and how upset I am about the whole situation. I think that its funny because normally my mom is the type of person who will side with me but she ALWAYS  tries to make me see the other side and understand what they are thinking or maybe why they are doing what they are doing. She is doesn't judge and that is ONE, of the many, things that I love about my mom. So it was crazy to me when she told me that she was having a hard time being nice. Anyway, Sunday was good for the most part. I mean Kailey and I were talking and stuff, the same thing for most of Monday. It felt awkward but it wasn't like Whitney awkward. (which is WONDERFUL) But on Sunday night Christine had a friend over and it was past curfew and they were being loud, Kailey texted me and asked if i was awake, and I was because they were being loud and because I was restless. So I asked her to give me Christine's number so I could text her and tell her It was curfew and that her friend needed to go home. Well she didn't respond, or listen for that matter. But by 12 they were quiet, so I was able to go to sleep. On Monday night it was worse because it was John John (Christine's boyfriend) and they kept waking me up by turning on the lights and being kinda noisy. (again because I was restless and easily a waken.) Because of this I had drafted an email to send to our manager, and I was going to get up on Tuesday morning and send it to her. On Tuesday morning at like 7:45 or 8 my phone buzzed more than once, which usually means that someone is calling me, and because it was so early it worried me so I looked. Nope, not a call, just 4 text messages.  2 from Brian and 2 from Kailey. Brian's said;
"I hope this doesnt wake you up if you are asleep, but last night was the second night in a row that john john broke curfew (technically Christine, but yeah...). he and christine kept kailey up all night with their noises. I'd like to talk to you about that sometime today."
So I just gave a simple answer of "Don't worry about it, I've taken care of it." and he responded simply (for the first time in his life...) saying "alright thank you." The thing that makes me upset with that is because it kept me up too, not all night but it did wake me up a lot. Kailey's text are when it gets interesting.
"Hopefully this doesn't wake u up, if it does i'm super sorry! but did you end up texting christine about curfew the other night?"
I was upset because I honestly don't think it was a coincidence that they texted me at the same time so I may have been a little bit rude. This is what I said
" Yeah she didn't respond so I've taken care of things. Oh can you let Brian know that he doesn't have to be a jerk. I am aware of what goes on here to be a jerk. I'm fully aware of what goes on here and I;m taking care of things. That wold be great. Sorry, I'm not upset with you just him."
So I told her about how I was going to email Gwenaly to which she asked if I would send her the email so she would know what it said so I fwd. this to her;
"Hey Gwenaly, 
I feel bad  that I have to turn to you about this but it has become a really big issue in our apartment. I know that Kailey talked to you a few days ago about how she broke curfew. She told us what you said about how we need to work things out as roommates. Which is great, we have worked things out, especially because all of us have struggled with the curfew rule. I need to let you know the reason as to why this has escalated to a bigger problem for me and Alex though. The biggest reason we we're upset is because it's not that there is someone at our house, it's that there is a boy in the room with the lights off, the door closed and locked. It just gives off the wrong impression. That has happened both with Kailey and Christine. I know that there have been sexual activities going on with Christine and her boyfriend, but as far as I know, nothing like that has happened with Kailey. It's really hard for us because we feel like we are confined to our room. We can't shower, use the bathroom, or even be in the living room or kitchen, especially when they push the couches together to sleep on. I don't know if you want to take care of this or if I should say something more to them, but I figured that I would let you know so that hopefully I can get your input on how to deal with this for the next 2 months.  Thank you so much Gwenaly, you really are a great manager. I'm sorry that I have to bug you but I think that you have a right to know what's going on. Sincerely, Kaci"
So after that Kailey was kinda upset because I "tattled" on her but like I told Gwenaly, it's something that she deserves to know about. Kailey asked me to tell her when Gwenaly replied, it took a little while for her to respond and I just got it this morning. I wasn't trying to avoid Kailey's text but I had been in class and at the library with spotty reception so I ended up with like 3 texts asking me if I had gotten an email back. I felt bad because she was obviously worried about it, but I wasn't able to respond until like 10:30 ish.
So the email that Gwenaly sent back said that she was going to meet with Kailey and Christine today at 3:30 (like right now... they are in the other room talking about it and my stomach is in butterflies because I'm worried about how they, especially Christine, is going to react. I can hear Christine in there getting defensive and Gwenaly trying to calm her down :S) I'm really glad that I finally talked to Gwenaly about this, its one weight off of my shoulders but it has been replaced by another. I really hope that things will finally work out. At least to the point that I will be able to live here peaceable for the next 45 days left in this place! THEN I"M GOING TO BE AT HOME! HOORAY!

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